Is that a moocher alert you hear ringing in your head? Money matters are sticky even between friends and family, much less a guy you like.

First of all, try to recall the times you’ve gotten the bill. Did you offer to get this round? Did he make a counter offer “I’ll buy you dinner the next time round”, or did he just quietly accept your offer of payment?

Chat and find out more about him. Maybe he’s currently going through a financial crisis – medical bills, in between jobs, paying off study loans, etc. It may not give him an excuse to mooch off you, but at least you will know that he’s not a moocher.

Try dropping a few subtle hints – “Hey, I got the last one, why don’t you get this one?” If you can’t get the words out of your mouth, just pretend to be busy with something when the bill comes, or just excuse yourself and head to the ladies’ room. Unfortunately, if he still looks at you expectantly when the bill comes or when you return from the restroom, ditch him. The boy only sees you as a walking cash dispenser.