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Tuesday, 09 June 2009 15:57 |
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Affairs usually start out exciting, passionate and liberating, but once there are more factors than lust, they end up being painful and hurtful.    |  Although you may have many reasons for getting into this affair, you have to do the obvious and just walk away. If you must, sit down and make a list of the actions you have to take. Tell him that you’re ending it because it’s going no where, tell him that you’re cutting off all communication, and then proceed to ignore his calls and text messages. |
If you want to remain as friends, you might want to have a cold turkey period to let the passion fizzle out first. Many people will get hurt if you carry on this relationship, especially so if you have children. There are tell-tale signs if a person is having an affair. Generally, they tend to take more care in their appearance and stay out more often. Perhaps your husband has already noticed this, but is keeping mum. Is it worth the pain and guilt you’re suffering, having to cook up excuses every single time you meet your lover? Are you running out of excuses? Are you getting paranoid over receiving phone calls when you’re with your husband, worried that it’s your lover calling?  Take some time out to work out the issues or reasons that caused you to get into this relationship in the first place. Were you neglected by your husband? Were you seeking emotional or physical relief? Are you in love or lust with your lover? Once you’ve worked these out, you can then proceed to find a solution. Good luck, and stay strong! |
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