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I really like this guy I just met. While we've been flirting over MSN, he hasn't really asked me out yet. Should I make the first move? How should I do it? – Farah, 22 PDF Print E-mail
Friday, 05 December 2008 02:03
 
Well, if you didn't already know this, guys are just as afraid of rejection as we are. So, instead of waiting for him to make the first move, why not just take matters into your own hands?
 
First dates can be scary, so you don't have to necessarily ask him on a date. As you have already been getting to know each other for some time, you may want to find a common ground, something you both enjoy doing. Ask him if he'd like to do it together sometime. Keep it casual so there is no pressure for either of you to live up to the expectation of a date.
 
If he says no, at least he knows you're interested and may need some time to know you better. Don't let the rejection get to you, and concentrate on building a friendship. You never know when your patience will pay off. Also, don't hold a grudge against him for not being as "into" you.
If he says yes, plan where and when you will go out, and don't forget to have fun. Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists. If he wants to pay for the date, then hey - no arguments there, right? Let him pay for the date if he insists--it makes him look like a gentleman and may also indicate that he is serious about pursuing you, which is what you were hoping for in the first place! On a first date, it is recommended that you go to the movies or somewhere with a lot of people, that way, there won't be any awkward silences.
Last Updated ( Thursday, 22 April 2010 18:33 )
   
 
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