Most couples assume that if they click romantically, they'll be rocking the sheets as well. But sex therapists say that it takes practice to get in sync with each other. If you've only recently gotten into bed with your partner, one or both parties might be trying too hard to impress, or relying on moves they used with an ex.

Solution? Think improvisation rather than choreography. It’s all about trial and error when it comes to a new bedroom buddy, and once you discover what turns you both on, it’ll be Destination: Climax before you know it.

If he fails to take you where you need to go, remember – guys are visual. Take his hand and place it down south, then demonstrate the speed and pressure that works best for you. When he sees how much you enjoy it, he won’t be forgetting that move in a hurry, and that can only mean one thing – better sack sessions for you. Remember to stock up on those condoms so that you can enjoy and have safe sex at the same time.