One of the mistakes made by men during sex is being too aggressive. Granted, some couples may like it rough in the sack, but not everyone feels the same way and there's no reason why you should suffer in silence. Here are a few tricks to tame your tiger.

The soft approach: Slow and steady

Tell your man you’d like to try something different - light some candles, give him an oil massage and relax in each other's arms. Let him know that taking it slow makes sex last longer and more enjoyable.

The hard approach: Teaching him a few lessons

If the soft approach doesn’t work, take control. Dress up in a hot teacher outfit for a sexy role playing session. Tell him that you are to be worshipped and treated with utmost care – if he's still too aggressive, the wooden ruler is there for a reason. Most men fantasise about women taking charge and being tamed, so this might be the perfect opportunity for you to spank some sense into him.


Regardless of the approach you take, don't forget to have safe sex by using condoms.