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Recently, my male boss has been constantly asking me out for drinks after work. How do I maintain a professional working relationship without crossing the line? – Crystal, 26 PDF Print E-mail
Monday, 23 March 2009 14:12

 

 

While going out with your boss after work to discuss job-related issues may seem innocent, you could set tongues wagging in the office. Gossip can damage your professional image and may even lead to disastrous results such as losing the respect of your co-workers. Try to maintain a professional relationship with your boss by requesting to reduce the number of after work meetings. If you really can’t avoid them, suggest holding the meetings in the office, especially if it is just the two of you.

 

If you’ve tried everything, then be frank with your boss. Tell him politely that it doesn’t seem professional to keep meeting after work. If he’s genuine about keeping it strictly business, he’ll get the message right away.

Last Updated ( Wednesday, 29 April 2009 10:49 )
 
COMMENTS (7)
7 Wednesday, 04 November 2009 12:51
Honeymoon Girl
I call my other colleagues along. It happened to me before plus that was the CEO of a company I had to work with so it was quite uncomfortable.Calling others out makes it seem more professional than "a date".
6 Wednesday, 28 October 2009 09:31
Yeam
Talk to him in a profesional manner.
5 Tuesday, 13 October 2009 14:44
jing
give excuses that you need to accompany your boyfriend after work.
4 Thursday, 28 May 2009 13:55
Juliana
Just go out for a drink.
Once a week its ok.
I just turn down my bos if I think we are always seen together - no harm done.
Be Professional GurL !
3 Friday, 17 April 2009 16:29
Uma
Not wrong to have drinks with your boss. You may even want to bring along your colleagues. This will prevent rumours. Pretty safe as well.
2 Sunday, 29 March 2009 17:01
pigletgal_81
Unless u interested in ur boss, if not just let him know you not the kind who likes to drink(unless you are).
1 Thursday, 26 March 2009 17:06
pigletgal_81
Unless u interested in ur boss, if not just let him know you not the kind who likes to drink(unless you are).

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