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My boyfriend can’t stop talking about his ex- is it reasonable for me to be jealous and should I do something about it? - Anna, 21 PDF Print E-mail
Tuesday, 06 March 2012 11:20
No woman would be willing to share her man’s heart with another woman, so it is perfectly normal to be jealous. However, it is important for you to stay calm and avoid jumping to conclusions. These are some questions that you should consider:
 
  1. Does your boyfriend want his ex-girlfriend back?
As hurtful as this may be, you’ll want to find this out sooner than later. But do be careful not to jump into false conclusions as this would only further aggravate the distance in your relationship. So have a heart to heart talk with your man, be sure of what both of you want in this relationship and take it from there.
 
  1. Has he completely gotten the closure he needed?
At the end of every relationship it is necessary for one to spend a little time accepting the end of it and to get the closure they need. If he hasn’t had time to grieve over the past relationship it may be challenging for him to move on. So, be patient and give him some time to get over her - choose to be a supportive and patient girlfriend.
 
If he’s convinced you that he doesn’t have feelings for her…
Let him know that you feel uncomfortable about him talking about her. He may think that he’s just trying to share a part of his history with you, but there’s no reason why you should stick with a guy who doesn’t want to put your feelings first.
 
Be honest with yourself
Trust yourself on your instincts – if your suspicion is based on facts rather than fear, perhaps than its time to let go. But if it’s not, then perhaps its time to focus more on yourself and your relationship – the important thing is to love yourself first before anyone can love you wholeheartedly.
 

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COMMENTS (5)
5 Wednesday, 04 April 2012 23:14
Rachel
how much does he want to be with you if he's always thinking about her?
4 Saturday, 17 March 2012 20:00
beary84
Tell him how you feel and ask him nicely whether he has any unresolved issues with his ex. If so,maybe it's time for both of you to separate for a while and think over whether he is ready for a new relationship.
3 Saturday, 17 March 2012 17:24
lyong88
it is right to be jealous and you should mention that to your bf.
2 Friday, 16 March 2012 09:59
Victoria Justice
he either wants you to be better or he prefers his ex.
1 Wednesday, 07 March 2012 00:02
serene
he is obviously not over it yet. dump him, and let him get his closure first.

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