My friend complains that my new romance has changed me – how do I make sure I don’t end up losing myself in a new relationship?

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My friend complains that my new romance has changed me – how do I make sure I don’t end up losing myself in a new relationship? - Diana, 25

Friday, 27 July 2012 10:30

The key to not losing yourself is to have balance- whether it’s work, play or relationships:

1. Be sure about yourself

Make sure you have clear goals, objectives, hobbies and interests that have nothing to do with your partner. Don’t play computer games when you hate them JUST to impress your other half and don’t give up your love of dance just because your partner isn’t interested. It is fine to have differing interests and it is equally important that you support each other.

2. Don’t forget about your friends

If your best friend is complaining that you’ve changed, it is highly likely that she’s also feeling a hint of jealousy and neglect. There are so many people who make the mistake of ditching friends whenever they have boyfriends. Their whole world revolves around each other and they live in a bubble- until one leaves and they both go crawling back to their friends. Make sure you spend an equal amount of time with friends and don’t bring your boyfriend along!

3. Stop obsessing about your relationship

There is nothing more annoying than having a person go on and on about her boyfriend. It’s understandable that you would want to talk about your new love, but it is also important to talk about other things in life- unless your boyfriend is your life, then you’ve got a problem. Also, you don’t need to text your boyfriend 24/7, especially when you’re out with your friends.

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COMMENTS (1)

talk to your boyfriend and have some activities that involve your friends. And make sure you some time with your hobbies too, and not only do the things your boyfriend likes.

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